How a wrong concept fools our understanding and behavior
I often hear people saying: “I love this or that, I love her or him.” Everybody is in love with something. But being in love with somebody is clearly a different from true genuine love, which I feel is very rare sometimes.
What people are actually saying instead of loving somebody is that they are being infatuated by them. Infatuation is something very common, something normal, which most people (including me) have experienced already. But it is definitely not love!